I stopped working after our 2nd child because his hours were so irregular and there was no predictability to his schedule. They are grown now and serving their country but luckily they still need Mom and Dad sometimes!. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. I am giving him all of those things. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion.
It sounds like you have found a good one. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. I have no kids with him I had one from a marriage before and I'm glad I have no kids with him now. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.
No one understands it, so thank you for sharing your thoughts so I know I'm not alone and not being too needy for feeling alone. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. Getting things done, solve every problems, started my day with long a to-do list daily. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy.
That's a really sad story. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. Dating is a tricky game.